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DIY Wedding Makeup: Your Guide to Wedding Beauty Confidence

Skin Care, Wedding Beauty Team, Wedding Prep

Kelli Thomsen Beauty

Wedding Planning Should Feel Positive

Wedding planning is meant to be a magical time. You’re connecting everything you’ve ever loved in one day. You’re surrounded by the people, music, and food you can’t imagine life without.

You want to look and feel like yourself. I want to make sure you feel confident.

Do You Really Need a Professional Makeup Artist or Should You Do Your Own Makeup For Your Wedding?

If you’re wondering whether you need a professional makeup and hair artist for your wedding day, the answer is maybe. Having a person or team there to create beauty magic brings a level of luxury and peace of mind.

Here’s my insight: Anytime you feel nervous or don’t have a budget to include beauty services, come see me. You can also visit someone licensed in your area. We can customize skincare and makeup steps for your skin type. This gives you that wedding day glow. It creates makeup results that last the entire day.

The Secret to Wedding Day Beauty

After working in the beauty industry and doing hundreds of weddings, I realized something important. Focusing time on a daily skincare routine can be more important than any makeup application by a professional. I started to see the connection between consistency and feeling beautiful.

If I could give one piece of advice to a bride about makeup, it would be this:

“Flawless skin translates beauty in photos better than any makeup application.” -Kelli Thomsen

What This Means for DIY Brides

You want to do your own makeup. But you don’t know if your day-to-day products will work. You’re not sure if you’re even using them correctly.

There are two components to successful wedding day beauty. I’ve narrowed it down to this simple formula:

1. Daily Care + The Correct Colors & Product Options

Your daily skincare routine is your foundation. Combine it with makeup colors that actually suit your skin tone. Use products that photograph well and last all day.

2. Professional Skin Treatments

Schedule treatments like deep cleansing facials in the months leading up to your big day. These prepare your skin for makeup application.

Making Your Skin a Priority

You’re juggling dress fittings, engagement photo planning, and cake tasting appointments. Finding time for skincare in between all of this will make all the difference. It affects how you feel and look.

Making your skin a top priority ensures you feel your most beautiful on your wedding day. There’s nothing better than loving the way your smile and skin look in photos. You come through, not the makeup.

Daily care and a personalized treatment schedule is the best way to ensure your complexion is radiant. Whether I’m applying your makeup or you’re doing it yourself, the result is the same: you look like you.

Why Skin Preparation Changes Everything

Clean, healthy skin is the canvas for all beauty. When you invest in your skin, makeup becomes easier. It applies smoothly. It looks natural. It lasts longer.

This is true whether a professional does your makeup or you do it yourself. The difference is in the preparation, not just the application.

Portland Oregon Esthetician Wedding Makeup and Hair

Learn to Do Your Own Wedding Makeup

Ready to learn how to do your makeup for your wedding? Reach out to take my DIY Wedding Makeup Lesson.

During this lesson, I teach you how to apply each step. You’ll leave with the products in hand. You can start practicing right away.

What You’ll Learn

  • How to prep your skin for flawless makeup application
  • Which clean beauty products work best for your skin type
  • Color selection that photographs beautifully
  • Application techniques that last all day
  • How to create a natural, editorial look

What You’ll Receive

  • Personalized product recommendations
  • The actual products you need (take them home that day)
  • Step-by-step application guidance
  • A customized routine you can practice
  • Confidence in your wedding day beauty plan

The Kelli Thomsen Beauty Difference

Whether you choose our team for your wedding day or decide to do your own makeup, I’m here to help. My goal is always the same: you should feel confident and beautiful.

Our approach combines clean beauty expertise with personalized education. We believe every bride deserves to feel empowered in her beauty choices.

You know your face better than anyone. With the right products, proper skin preparation, and expert guidance, you can create stunning results.

Your Wedding Day Beauty Starts Now

Don’t wait until the week before your wedding to think about your skin. Start now. Build a consistent routine. Schedule treatments. Learn the techniques.

Your future self will thank you when you look in the mirror on your wedding day. Even better, you’ll love every photo for years to come.

Book Your DIY Wedding Makeup Lesson

Ready to take control of your wedding day beauty? Let’s work together to create your perfect look. We’ll customize a plan that fits your vision, your values, and your budget.

Your wedding day beauty should feel authentic, effortless, and completely you. Let’s make it happen!


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2025 was full of flashy 12 step skin care routines 2025 was full of flashy 12 step skin care routines! Here’s what no one tells you about these rituals: not only can they wreak havoc on your microbiome, but they have to flex with your life or you’ll abandon them completely.

After 25+ years of working with real people through real life - weddings, grief, moves, breakups, illnesses - I know that rigid doesn’t work. What does work? Learning what your skin is actually telling you. Dryness isn’t always about hydration. Breakouts aren’t always about oil. Redness isn’t always about sensitivity. Your skin speaks a very specific language, and once you understand it, everything changes.

That’s where modalities like LED light become powerful - not as a daily must-do, but as a strategic tool that serves your skin’s current needs. Different wavelengths address different concerns, and together we can customize your treatments to work with your life, not against it.

Consistency at home + strategic in-studio support = your healthiest skin. Let’s make 2026 about intentional, true to YOU steps with #cleanbeauty ingredients that support your optimal health.
To our future couples: We don’t transform. We elev To our future couples: We don’t transform. We elevate. We reveal. We honor what’s already beautiful in you. The moment I live for is when a bride looks in the mirror during her design session and says ‘I look like me - elevated’ - with relief in her voice.

Somewhere along the way, we were conditioned to think that wedding beauty means looking different. More done. More trend-forward. More… something.

But the people I work with? They’re the ones who want to look at their wedding photos in 30 years and recognize themselves naturally beautiful.

Radiant. Vibrant. Timeless.

Not 2025. Not Instagram. Not anyone else.

They want to see all their natural beauty brought forward, enhanced, celebrated. That’s the kind of beauty that doesn’t need updating. It’s never about covering or fixing. It’s always about being fully honored, magnified and cared for. 

photography @hollyhursleyphoto
planning @hostedby.co
floral @wildflower_portland 
ceremony venue @csrgpdx
reception venue catering: huntandgathercatering
DJ @dillonbartellmusic
beauty @kellithomsen 
rentals @powerofloverentals
paper goods & signage @kellielynnthayer transportation @shanghaipartybus
ceremony entertainment correabrandonpaul @salemstringquartet 
ceremony bartending @bliss_bar 
rings @malkadiamonds

#cleanbeauty #oregonwedding #weddingbeauty #portlandmakeupartist #weddingmakeup
I got this email from a colleague that completely I got this email from a colleague that completely stopped me in my tracks. It’s exactly what I’ve been feeling as we head into 2026. She asked: “What’s the dream you keep pushing to the side because it feels too big?” I felt that in my whole body.

Here’s what I know after 25+ years in this industry: I see it all the time - you want glowing skin, so you panic and buy seven new products at once, get overwhelmed, and then do nothing. Or you want to finally learn makeup that actually works for your face, but the idea of figuring it all out feels impossible, so you don’t start.

But that’s not how your healthiest skin gets revealed. Real change starts small. Not with the perfect 10-step routine. Not with buying out Sephora. It starts with switching ONE product to something clean. Learning ONE technique that actually flatters your features. Booking ONE skincare session. Creating ONE morning ritual that actually feels good.

One block. Then another. Then another.
And suddenly six months later you look up and realize - holy shit, my skin actually glows now. I know how to do my makeup. This actually works. I can breathe. That’s how I built my small business. That’s how I created my lifestyle and sanctuary. That’s how nervous systems regulate and your healthiest skin reveals itself. 

What’s your one small action for the next 7 days? Maybe it’s:
-Tossing one toxic product and replacing it with something botanical
-Booking that makeup lesson you’ve been putting off
-Actually using that face oil sitting on your shelf
-Spending 60 seconds on a face massage instead of doom-scrolling
-Finally trying that technique I showed you in your last session
Just one thing. That’s your first block.
And if you’re thinking “I don’t even know where to start,” I’ve got something coming that’ll help.

2026 is the Year of the Fire Horse, known for unstoppable momentum, fierce independence, and breaking convention. I’m absolutely channeling that energy into what’s coming and I have a surprise coming the week leading up to Chinese New Year (February 12-17)! STAY TUNED. Happy New Year 🎆
Winter Solstice. The longest night. The turning po Winter Solstice. The longest night. The turning point. The exhale. It’s 11 pm on this first day of winter and I’m feeling deeply grateful. This past wedding season was extraordinary! 68+ weddings from Bend to wine country. Incredible couples who trusted me. Vendors who became true collaborators. Brands and companies who actually share my values around clean beauty & intentional work.

And now I get to pause. To reflect. To actually metabolize it all. This is the part people don’t always see, the winter quiet after a season of intense creation. But it’s essential. This is where I integrate everything I learned. Where I ask myself what worked, what didn’t, what I want to carry forward. Where I honor the season that just passed and tend to what wants to emerge.

To every couple who let me be part of your day, thank you for trusting me with your beauty. To the photographers, planners, florists, and venue teams who make this work collaborative magic, you inspire me. To the clean beauty brands doing it right, thank you for making products I believe in.

I’ve been using this solstice energy to appreciate this and to create what’s next. My studio is becoming the sanctuary I always envisioned. I’m developing my first online course and I’m genuinely excited to share what I’ve been building soon. I’m spending time with my true friends making art and setting real intentions for the year ahead.

Our 2026 wedding calendar is almost full and we’re building a waitlist for 2027. But right now, in this moment, I’m not focused on what’s next. I’m honoring what was. I’m sitting in the stillness. I’m letting myself feel how big this season actually was. This is how I prepare for a successful, fruitful year. Not by hustling through winter, but by doing the quiet work that makes everything else possible. By being selective about how I spend my time and who I spend it with. By tending to what matters. 

The goal is as the light is returning, I’ll be rested and ready. ✨

Venue: @thecragrathut
Planner: @silkandsaltevents
Caterer: @ripcitygrill
Hair & Make-up: @kellithomsen
Dress: @waichingstudio
Suit: @indochinoweddings
Jeweler: @withtheseringshandmade
Desserts: @papahaydn
There’s something about a Hood River wedding that There’s something about a Hood River wedding that asks you to trust the elements, and Kathleen did just that.

Golden hour light spilling across The Gorge. Soft winds that honored her delicate veil instead of fighting it. A bridal party that moved through the day with the kind of ease that only comes when everyone feels genuinely cared for.

For Kathleen’s makeup, we let her natural freckles show through because why would we cover what makes her uniquely beautiful? Warm taupes and neutral tones that enhanced rather than masked. Soft and natural individual lashes. A rosewood lip chosen specifically to complement her natural skin tone, not fight against it.

This is what happens when you choose a beauty approach that works with your skin, your features, your natural coloring. Kathleen’s makeup held beautifully through riverside portraits, emotional vows, and dancing under the twilight because it was designed for her skin, this climate, these conditions.

This is the Pacific Northwest wedding beauty we’ve spent 25+ years perfecting. Weather-tested, botanically-driven, designed to let you be fully present instead of worried about how you look.

Thank you to this exceptional vendor team who understands that true luxury is in the details, the care, and the experience!

Venue: @thegriffinhouse
Planning/Design: @amandajeanpdxevents
Photography: @megangallagherphoto
Florals: @trellis_flowers
Hair: @styledbymattie
Skin & Makeup: @kellithomsen
Catering: @bellyfulcatering
Band/DJ: @bluewaveband
Rentals: @riverhoodrentals
At 50, I’m not winding down, I’m finally warmed up At 50, I’m not winding down, I’m finally warmed up! What I’m tending now? 

It’s been growing all along. After years of trial & error, I finally learned how to be still enough to enjoy it bloom - the garden, the work, the space and balance of energy. Everything around me is finally aligned. There’s this flow now where nothing is forced and everything feels organic, exactly how I approach the work I do, exactly how life is meant to feel. 

RECAP of the most important things I’ve learned: 

-you don’t need a master plan, just keep showing up for what feels true.

-build your life like a garden, one intentional choice at a time.

-some people are seasonal, others are perennial, the storms show you which is which.

-your body’s wisdom is smarter than your mind’s logic, listen to it.

-you can’t show up for others unless you’re showing up for yourself first.

-boundaries aren’t walls, they’re how you protect the energy for what truly matters.

-healing changes your taste… in people, in habits, in dreams.

-trust what lights you up, because your excitement is real data.

-you don’t have to choose between the wild & intentional, be both!

#Turning50 #CultivatingBeauty #ComeSitInMyGarden #CleanBeauty #SlowingDown #TendingToMySanctuary #Enhancement #IntentionaLliving

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